n recent years, the battle for sex worker rights in my beloved America has been marred by a surge in opposition from multiple corners, notably from the redpill manosphere movement and conservative theocratic efforts. These ideological factions are distinct, yet they often overlap in their disdain for sex workers, pornography, and broader sexual freedom. Understanding how these groups impact sex worker rights, pornography regulation, and the fight for sexual freedom requires looking closely at their motivations, tactics, and goals.
The Redpill Manosphere: Targeting Women’s Sexual Autonomy
The "redpill" manosphere—a collection of loosely affiliated online communities that promote hyper-masculinity, misogyny, and patriarchal values—has gained influence in the broader cultural landscape. Central to this movement is a rigid view of gender roles, where women are often reduced to sexual objects or seen as manipulators of men’s emotions, finances, or status. I recently had the stomach-churning experience of being on one of the largest redpill podcasts, and for several hours I sat face to face with men who deny my humanity and freedom.
These men simultaneously want to own women and also harm them; they simply do not believe that women deserve to make our own decisions. They believe we are vehicles for the production of their children and the performance of unpaid labor, and they want to take American women back to what is essentially slavery. When we have our own money and have sex when and with whom we wish, they quite literally want us dead. Members of the redpill community frequently express hostility toward sex workers, whom they see as emblematic of the commodification of male desire and female autonomy. OnlyFans creators, strippers, and escorts are often vilified for profiting off men’s sexuality, with the redpill worldview blaming us for men’s perceived disempowerment. This anti-sex worker rhetoric goes hand-in-hand with attacks on pornography, which they see as either undermining men’s willpower or contributing to the cultural erosion of "traditional" gender roles. Their critiques are not rooted in genuine concern for exploitation but rather in preserving their sense of male dominance. Rather than control their own addictive tendencies and speak honestly about their lack of discipline, they blame others for their failings. They are, simply, unwilling to grow up and be accountable…they’d rather harm others. Especially women, a target they perceive as easier to force back into the suffering of our mothers' and grandmothers’ days.
American Christian Theocracy and the Push for Conservative Sexual Norms
Meanwhile, conservative religious movements—driven by a vision of a Christian theocracy—are working tirelessly to impose their moral framework on American society. These efforts often target reproductive rights, LGBTQ+ rights, and any form of sexual expression deemed "immoral." Unsurprisingly, sex work and pornography are primary targets of their campaigns, which seek to criminalize or severely restrict these industries. They are insanely sex-phobic and dishonest, living a lie and detesting those who live more honestly. Nearly all of my clients were conservative men who claimed one set of values and lived another, voting to harm the very sex workers whose labor they enjoyed. It seems as though they are happier in delusion, and unable to come to grips with who and what they truly are and want.
Conservative legislators, backed by religious interest groups, have introduced bills aimed at limiting access to pornography, pushing for age verification laws, and reviving obscenity standards that would criminalize certain forms of sexual expression. Platforms that host adult content face increasing pressure, with payment processors like Visa and Mastercard sometimes withdrawing support, thereby squeezing the financial lifelines of sex workers. The Christian right argues that pornography undermines family values and leads to moral decay, but their broader goal is to police sexuality and enforce heteronormative, patriarchal structures. Want proof? Just ask my colleagues who most of our clients are.
Adult material is actually the third rail of marriage, allowing an outlet that often keeps people *from* seeking an exit and a newer relationship. The biological urge for variety cannot be punished away; laws and religion will never beat biology. The latter has existed for billions of years. The hubris of the conservative religious cohort does absolutely nothing except foster lies, hiding and shame…and all the harm that comes from those. It’s simply the egos of those who want so badly to be “right,” that they do not care who they hurt.
Attacks on Pornography: A Convergence of Redpill and Theocratic Agendas
Despite their ideological differences, the redpill manosphere and conservative theocratic movements converge when it comes to attacking pornography and sexual freedom. For both groups, pornography represents a threat—either to the control men believe they should have over women or to the moral and religious fabric they want to see reinstated in society. The war on pornography often uses moral panic and misinformation, framing it as inherently exploitative or corrupting without acknowledging the agency and humanity of those who create and participate in it. Both movements seek to eliminate not just pornography but any form of sexual expression that deviates from their rigid, patriarchal ideals. The sex workers who operate within these industries are thus caught in the crossfire, as our work is framed not as a choice but as a societal ill that needs to be eradicated.
Sex Workers’ Fight for Recognition and Rights
While redpill advocates and the Christian right push for a more repressive sexual culture, sex workers have been fighting for our rights and recognition as legitimate laborers. And we will continue to do so, and we will win. Why? Because we are actually the moral majority, we have the money and power and intelligence…and we’re fun and hot (okay that last bit is a bit of a joke, but for real, everyone likes us better except weirdos who hate women, and ya’ll know it. We’re great. That’s why you’re fascinated by us and also can’t stand us…be honest. It’s okay; the truth shall set you free, friends). The decriminalization of sex work has been a rallying cry for many activists, who argue that criminalizing the industry only endangers workers, forcing us into unsafe conditions and stripping us of legal protections. Sex workers argue for our agency, stressing that we have a right to choose what we do with our bodies and how we earn a living. Decriminalization will not only improve safety but also reduce stigma, allowing us to access healthcare, legal recourse, and social support without fear of persecution. We will win this fight. Watch. We aren’t afraid of you. And you will never own my body. I’ll fuck who I want, when I want, why I want, as long as that person (people? heh heh) consents. Cry more about it.
The Threat to Sexual Freedom
Sexual freedom in America is at a crossroads. The convergence of redpill ideology and theocratic efforts threatens not just sex workers, but anyone who values the right to control your sexual expression. Think about your sexiest experiences, secrets, internet search history, fetishes, desires. We all have them. Do you want them criminalized? I’ll bet not. These movements seek to limit your sexual autonomy, impose restrictive norms, and criminalize consensual your adult behavior. The legislative and cultural attacks on sex workers and pornography are part of a broader effort to roll back the progress made over decades in the fight for *your* sexual liberation. You and I both know you have private thoughts and wants; everyone does. Be careful, or you may live in a world in which you’re imprisoned for them. Vote accordingly, if you like owning your body. Or let the state and church decide your legal status, if they decide that thing you like in bed isn’t okay with them.
The Importance of Solidarity
Sex workers' rights are human rights, and their fight is intertwined with the broader struggle for sexual freedom. The rise of redpill misogyny and the growing influence of Christian theocracy pose real dangers, but sex workers and our allies continue to advocate for dignity, autonomy, and safety in the face of these attacks. By joining and supporting us and pushing back against repressive legislation, we can resist these movements and defend the right to sexual freedom for all. Only through solidarity and continued activism can we ensure that all humans are protected and that sexual expression remains free from the clutches of insane, theocratic control. The future of sexual freedom in America depends on it.
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